Harassment from neighbours

I am a parent and carer to my 24-year-old autistic son who is autistic and has mental health issues.
The new neighbours moved in in August. They have been making loud noises during anti-social times and also persistenly during the day, so you get no break from it. An autistic is living on his nerves. To escape them, we have been sleeping in the cemetery, but because this woman has crutches and the husband is a full-time carer, the police feel sorry for her. Myself and an autistic have been put down as the problem.
We've now had it with the neighbour reporting us to the council for crossing the grass verge which is classed as illegal. So, now I can't park on my driveway, which I have done for 10 years in my council property, because I will get a £1,000 fine, or I need to pay £1,000 to get the kerb dropped, even though I know that we have got to move. This has been like a final nail in the coffin to see an autistic go down so much, constantly ill and tired. The council aren't sympathetic, even the autism department. The police have been horrible to us. When I complained about the police, the sergeant phoned me up really offhand. When I said "I suppose it would solve everyone's problems if we moved". He said "Yeah". I feel so alone. I'm already worried about all these benefit cuts, and I am worried how much more I can cope with and also a high-functioning autistic but who is vulnerable.
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  • sorry for your problems but i do find it derogatory to refer to your son as "an autistic", surely he is your son first and autistic second not just a disability.

    If you want to move who dont you look on the council swap list and see who wants to swap with you.

    If they are making loud noises you could get environmental health from the council or the council housing enforcement officers involved. The price of a dropped kerb is the same for everyone. I have asked for a dropped kerb so i can get my wheelchair into the house and been told the same thing.

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  • sorry for your problems but i do find it derogatory to refer to your son as "an autistic", surely he is your son first and autistic second not just a disability.

    If you want to move who dont you look on the council swap list and see who wants to swap with you.

    If they are making loud noises you could get environmental health from the council or the council housing enforcement officers involved. The price of a dropped kerb is the same for everyone. I have asked for a dropped kerb so i can get my wheelchair into the house and been told the same thing.

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