• Replies 7 replies
  • Subscribers 25 subscribers
  • Views 944 views
  • Users 0 members are here
Options
Related
Hints and tips
  • To quote someone's message, first select/highlight the relevant text, and then use the Quote button that appears
  • To "mention" someone, type @ followed by the start of the forum name, and choose from the list; that person will get a notification of being mentioned

Do you ever feel like your parenting is being questioned?

mumof4boys772

So today we saw a private occupational therapist that school have bought in, i have a chat with her and she says my son will need a sensory diet ect ect, i also said to her i did not understand why there was a huge difference in behaviour rom home to school.

Anyway went in and spoke to teacher this afternoon and asked how it went, she said that shes said to the ot perhaps its home because they have no problems in school, which now makes me think that they think its my parenting and by goslly olly do i feel bad now.

Parents

  • I wouldn't worry about what the school says. 

    Last year we were being told by my daughter's school that she MUST be unhappy at home, because she was unhappy when she went to school. Their attitude towards us got really out of hand in the end. In the end, she told us that she was being bullied at school by her 'friends', and that her teacher had said he didn't care when she tried to tell him one of the girls had slapped her in the face. We were so gutted for her, realising that she had been going through all that by herself. The school absolutely refused to listen so in the end we moved her to a different school and she is now much happier. 

    I realise that's a different situation, but schools don't always get it right, even though many would like to think they do. 

Reply

  • I wouldn't worry about what the school says. 

    Last year we were being told by my daughter's school that she MUST be unhappy at home, because she was unhappy when she went to school. Their attitude towards us got really out of hand in the end. In the end, she told us that she was being bullied at school by her 'friends', and that her teacher had said he didn't care when she tried to tell him one of the girls had slapped her in the face. We were so gutted for her, realising that she had been going through all that by herself. The school absolutely refused to listen so in the end we moved her to a different school and she is now much happier. 

    I realise that's a different situation, but schools don't always get it right, even though many would like to think they do. 

Children
No Data