Adult diagnosis of Asperger's?

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Just registered here so this is my first post. Basically I've struggled with a lot of things most of my life, I'm in my late 30s now, but in my early 30s a friend suggested that I may have Asperger's. I looked into it and it really explained a lot of things, actually it was hugely helpful to self diagnose, since it's helped me deal with why I have trouble with certain things and why I struggle doing things that most people take for granted.

The reason I've come on here is to ask about proper diagnosis, and whether it's worth it? I work as a freelance designer / illustrator so I work from home, which suits me well because I find it really hard to work in an office. However, I'd like to try to get a full time job in my field, so I'm wondering if getting a proper diagnosis will be beneficial?

I have absolutely no idea what help is available for people with Asperger's, nor if there's even any help that can be given. I don't really know my GP since I rarely get ill, and the thought of going to them to talk about this sort of thing makes me really anxious, so I've been avoiding it for ages. But having said that, if there's a real advantage to getting a proper diagnosis then I could probably push myself to do so.

Another problem from reading some of the threads on this forum, is that it seems a lot of people don't get taken very seriously, or can appear to be "fine" when seeing a GP or a specialist. I've trained myself over the years to create habits to sort of hide my Asperger's (or suspected Asperger's!) so I worry it may be hard to diagnose.

Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated! 

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  • Former Member
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    Hi Kitty,

    It sounds like your ex was not a good match for you, we need some me time as well as the shared time of a relationship. It sounds like you are looking back without wishing you were still in the relationship so your aren't feeling bad about it. I was just suggesting an interpretation because I've seen similar things come up on here before.

    You say that your mother was very cold. I expect you have heard of the refrigerator mother theories for autism? I have a hunch that some of these refrigerators are actually Asperger's themselves. The description fits - a cold expressionless person who doesn't display a lot of emotion could well be ASD? Does that sound possible in your case? You also say that your son has it and you have now been confirmed so it is likely that you inherited from your mother or your father.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi Kitty,

    It sounds like your ex was not a good match for you, we need some me time as well as the shared time of a relationship. It sounds like you are looking back without wishing you were still in the relationship so your aren't feeling bad about it. I was just suggesting an interpretation because I've seen similar things come up on here before.

    You say that your mother was very cold. I expect you have heard of the refrigerator mother theories for autism? I have a hunch that some of these refrigerators are actually Asperger's themselves. The description fits - a cold expressionless person who doesn't display a lot of emotion could well be ASD? Does that sound possible in your case? You also say that your son has it and you have now been confirmed so it is likely that you inherited from your mother or your father.

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