younger sigling displaying symptoms of bad behaviour. Older brother has adha

My nephew who is 14 has Adha, and conduct disorder and possibly ASD. My nephews younger sibling who is 4yrs old, is displaying the same behavioural patterns as my nephew. However, in my opinion the 4yr old seems to be far worse in his behaviour. My nephew at that age was not as bad in his behaviour. I have taken a lot of notice of the 4yr olds behaviour pattern. How i mean by bad behaviour, is the 4yr old has a younger sibiling 3yrs old. What is concerning is how the 4yr old constantly hits the 3yr old. Really hurting him. What really alarms me the 4yr old has tried to pull the 3yr olds private parts  off, The 4yr old will take everthing the 3yr old has eg. food, drinks,toys. The 4yr old with put items of the 3yrs old into the rubbish bin. The poor 3yr old has no say. He is hit kicked pushed,nipped. Always has black eyes. lumps on his head, bust lips. ect. The 4yr old also bullies, hits, kicks, other children in school. Teachers are very concerned. And i agree. Something is wrong with the 4yr old. His behaviour is a cause for concern. Need some helpful advice

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  • just a quick note. I look after a 4 year old who has HFA. He gets very frustrated at times when he is unable to communicate due to his speech. He Stims a lot and so a far I do not see this as a problem as if this is his way of coping I believe it should be welcomed, although I worry about when he is older at school and other children may find it disturbing. He can lash out unexpectedly using violence against others that are in his space and becomes very upset afterwards and goes into meltdown . He also has sensory issues and problems with his bowels that can sometimes leave him in a lot of pain . I was given some information from a friend about juice plus; I had never heard of it before so I did some research of my own and spoke to other parents who had tried this and had some great feedback so thought we would give it a try . Within a few months everything seems to have calmed down And I am in no doubt that a lot has to with juice plus .his parents were reluctant to have him on medication so were more than happy to give anything else a try and are amazed with the results so far. I hope this May help  http://www.juiceplus.co.uk/+km69578 

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  • just a quick note. I look after a 4 year old who has HFA. He gets very frustrated at times when he is unable to communicate due to his speech. He Stims a lot and so a far I do not see this as a problem as if this is his way of coping I believe it should be welcomed, although I worry about when he is older at school and other children may find it disturbing. He can lash out unexpectedly using violence against others that are in his space and becomes very upset afterwards and goes into meltdown . He also has sensory issues and problems with his bowels that can sometimes leave him in a lot of pain . I was given some information from a friend about juice plus; I had never heard of it before so I did some research of my own and spoke to other parents who had tried this and had some great feedback so thought we would give it a try . Within a few months everything seems to have calmed down And I am in no doubt that a lot has to with juice plus .his parents were reluctant to have him on medication so were more than happy to give anything else a try and are amazed with the results so far. I hope this May help  http://www.juiceplus.co.uk/+km69578 

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