Stressed out

Woke up to my ex calling me, has been on and off for a few months. 

Ive been there for him everytime he calls but when I call he don't want to know. 

All he wants is positively and even though we stayed in contacted we would talk about problem going on in our life but he says im too negative recently. Recently I've lost my cat after she died. I'm scared of going back to uni and finding it hard to cope. He said I blame you for handling wrong you can choose to be positive yet your too sad. 

His way of trying to cheer me up was morbid jokes about my cat. Seriously?!! 

He tells me only he can tell me to shush not me to him. Only he can make fun of me not me to him. So one sided and yet this is the guy I seem to only confide in even after splitting up. 

I'm so lost. What should I do? Can anyone relate?

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  • I can absolutely relate, does it feel like he is controlling you?  Maybe you have been depending on him as someone to talk to but he doesn't seem to value you and is taking advantage of your vulnerability?  He has no empathy for you grieving the loss of your cat. I am sorry you are going through this. You deserve better.

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  • I can absolutely relate, does it feel like he is controlling you?  Maybe you have been depending on him as someone to talk to but he doesn't seem to value you and is taking advantage of your vulnerability?  He has no empathy for you grieving the loss of your cat. I am sorry you are going through this. You deserve better.

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