Sensory issues with school uniform

My 15 year old daughter has high functioning autism and has always had sensory issues with clothing such as not liking certain fabrics, seams, etc. Recently she has developed a patch on her neck which has become super-sensitive during the last few days preventing her from wearing her school polo shirt. The patch does look a little inflamed, but although various creams seem to have calmed it down visually, she still goes into meltdown when she tries on her polo shirt. Because of this she won't go into school and although she would be allowed to adapt her uniform to reduced the sensitivity, she still refuses to go because she would look different from the other girls and she is extremely self-conscious.

It would be great to hear from anyone else who has had a similar problem or has any ideas on what might help this situation.

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  • Hi Pinklady

    My daughter is super sensitive to clothes to the point of us only having a few items that she will wear.  She won't wear a bra and her knickers have to be a certain type.  School uniform has always been an issue but she's not at school at the moment so some days she gets to stay in her PJ's all day and that is what she's happiest in though even those have been specifically picked - luckily she likes Primark legging style and fruit of the loom t-shirts which are both quite cheap.

    Having been going through this since she was 5 (didn't seem to have a problem before that), I hope one day it will get better however for us, it is worse than its ever been.  I can't even find her leggings now that she's happy with and those were a clothing staple up until last year.  Fingers crossed that you find a solution.

  • Hi I am autistic and I don't know if it will help but I am sensitive to bras aswell and I have tried this new brand it is called Elle the are so comfortable and soft seemles as well so I don't know if this help but yeah

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