feel as i have totally let my son down

Frown feel as if the further i try for my son the more i let him down,  god i have never given up but i feel i cant fight any more , i have had a totall bummer of a ot which has caused a lot of heartache recently at a caf meeting ect, my son is now 10 he has ASD and hemiplegic CP love him to bits i also have  othe children age 6 and 7 my 7 yr old boy is deaf ,  why do i feel like this?  it not me ......the nurse for cyps we havnt saw for  nearly 3 mnths no help from her at all i feel i am left in limbo nights are terrible as he doesnt sleep and has night terrors she was supposed to be going to help me with a programme for him but hasnt been sighted, the school stating if i need help from their he needs to be assessed from there team for a diagnosis , why when he has already got hs diagnosis , fed up , really at tebottom nowFrown

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  • Is there a possibility that you can take a break and recharge your batteries?  I know this is easier said than done when you have children generally let alone when you have one on the spectrum.  Remember you are doing a great job and your children won't be feeling as though you're letting them down.  You sound like you could do with some support yourself that could perhaps pull all the other proffessionals to work together.  Not sure if Parent Partnership does this?

    I've also ordered some mohdoh for my daughter but also found recommended some Bach Gummy stars and some Bach Night drops that have good reviews.  It was almost cheaper to get three items than one with P&P on Amazon.

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  • Is there a possibility that you can take a break and recharge your batteries?  I know this is easier said than done when you have children generally let alone when you have one on the spectrum.  Remember you are doing a great job and your children won't be feeling as though you're letting them down.  You sound like you could do with some support yourself that could perhaps pull all the other proffessionals to work together.  Not sure if Parent Partnership does this?

    I've also ordered some mohdoh for my daughter but also found recommended some Bach Gummy stars and some Bach Night drops that have good reviews.  It was almost cheaper to get three items than one with P&P on Amazon.

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