I saw this video earlier. it gets a bit off topic at the end but it certainly explains a phenomena I've witnessed and briefly taken part in.
Now, I have adapted to surmount the problems that the narrator highlights, but my bloodline still dies with me, as our generations children "en masse" do not want to bear children, and I did nto have enough chidren it seems...
As the video points out, this seems to be predominantly a "white" thing and that could lead to a whole set of contentiousness which I'd like to avoid, the intent of my post is to show the Author of this topic whether male or female that in part their current situation is a product of the 1960's "experimental sexual revolution", where "traditional" ways of managing the pairing up of people were dsmantled and discarded for a new model which has the shortcomings that the video highlights very well.
If you can do arithmetic in your head, when you get to the 20% 80% bit you can see that the current system statistically guarantees an unsatisfactory set of romantic relationships for the majority of people, for most of the time, and is very disruptive to the timings needed to sucessfully start and raise a family.
If we want the more peaceful and less "grabby" members of society to be the majority (kinda what you need in order to share resources fairly in a highly complex society such as we have) then how does our current system promote that? Humans need to reproduce when they are YOUNG and have suffient energy to hunter gather for themselves and their infants in simple mammal terms..
Our western societies seem to now effectively prevent that for all but the most accomplished or genetically "lucky"...
I saw this video earlier. it gets a bit off topic at the end but it certainly explains a phenomena I've witnessed and briefly taken part in.
Now, I have adapted to surmount the problems that the narrator highlights, but my bloodline still dies with me, as our generations children "en masse" do not want to bear children, and I did nto have enough chidren it seems...
As the video points out, this seems to be predominantly a "white" thing and that could lead to a whole set of contentiousness which I'd like to avoid, the intent of my post is to show the Author of this topic whether male or female that in part their current situation is a product of the 1960's "experimental sexual revolution", where "traditional" ways of managing the pairing up of people were dsmantled and discarded for a new model which has the shortcomings that the video highlights very well.
If you can do arithmetic in your head, when you get to the 20% 80% bit you can see that the current system statistically guarantees an unsatisfactory set of romantic relationships for the majority of people, for most of the time, and is very disruptive to the timings needed to sucessfully start and raise a family.
If we want the more peaceful and less "grabby" members of society to be the majority (kinda what you need in order to share resources fairly in a highly complex society such as we have) then how does our current system promote that? Humans need to reproduce when they are YOUNG and have suffient energy to hunter gather for themselves and their infants in simple mammal terms..
Our western societies seem to now effectively prevent that for all but the most accomplished or genetically "lucky"...
