Recently self-diagnosed, and lonely because I've been single for a long time, I feel like I'm undateable

I think classes and pursuing interests are a good way forward? I did a songwriting course years ago and that was challenging and for me out of the house….as for the me now though - not easy to follow my own advice

There's no classes I'm interested in taking, and I have my hobbies and passions - music, background acting, gaming etc - hopefully once my band starts gigging someone'll finally have a reason to be interested in me, but I'm pretty much past getting my hopes up

Just do it coz it’s fun - the gigging. It’s hard work. Like relationships.  takes a lot out of you and makes you vulnerable - that’s a lot to navigate, I reckon and I reckon I know how you mean undatable… I’ve been there and am… but if there are others out there then you’re just being busy taking steps forward? 

Hope? Friends? New things? Support? 

wishing you those x

Just do it coz it’s fun - the gigging. It’s hard work. Like relationships.  takes a lot out of you and makes you vulnerable - that’s a lot to navigate, I reckon and I reckon I know how you mean undatable… I’ve been there and am… but if there are others out there then you’re just being busy taking steps forward? 

Hope? Friends? New things? Support? 

wishing you those x

I'm lucky enough to have some good friends who are able to put up with me lol but my hope of finding love has pretty much died a death!