dating sites dont work as they usually all have dodgy lock outs where you cant message anyone because messages are behind paywalls, but then you get random fake accounts messaging you and to see their message you have to pay, but yet they are fake anyway because real women dont actually message you on dating sites especially right away, they are all fake accounts trying to incentivise you to pay.
Do you mean just the autistic oriented ones or all of them?
I've worked with people who were able to find their partners (eithe casual or long term) through dating sites, but they were neurotypical colleagues. Those were plenyoffish and tinder.
They can be a bit of a minefield mind you, but reading up on what to look for as red flags is the way to go, followed by some due diligence.
all of them. i tried pof but all the women are really judgemental. there was one that contacted back locally but then asked to go out to manchester and i dunno it feels out of my character to go to manchester, i dont really go anywhere, it would feel weird and abnormal i guess.
maybe, could be, i guess i get set in my ways and dont see myself doing other stuff, like going to manchester! lol as its outside of my norm. i guess id seek a easy person to slot into my life but thats not easy as everyones all over the fecking place going everywhere near and far all the time. medieval era would have been easier for me when i reflect on that, no one left their home town travel was not normal, everyones lives slotted perfectly in with one another.
Not having a go at you, but asking an honest question.
Do you think this negativity would be impacting your chances of success?
A lot of early stage discussions in relationships build on positives - things you both like or want to try and the pleasure of introducing the other person to the things you enjoy.
When one partner in the conversation is quite negative then it can be a big turnoff.
I don't know what you are like in person so this isn't a criticism, but asking you to consider if this could be a part of it. No need to share if you are not comfortable.
maybe, could be, i guess i get set in my ways and dont see myself doing other stuff, like going to manchester! lol as its outside of my norm. i guess id seek a easy person to slot into my life but thats not easy as everyones all over the fecking place going everywhere near and far all the time. medieval era would have been easier for me when i reflect on that, no one left their home town travel was not normal, everyones lives slotted perfectly in with one another.
Not having a go at you, but asking an honest question.
Do you think this negativity would be impacting your chances of success?
A lot of early stage discussions in relationships build on positives - things you both like or want to try and the pleasure of introducing the other person to the things you enjoy.
When one partner in the conversation is quite negative then it can be a big turnoff.
I don't know what you are like in person so this isn't a criticism, but asking you to consider if this could be a part of it. No need to share if you are not comfortable.
