My son is obese and I am so responsible

Hi , my little boy who is 6 and has autism is very overweight . We have had to buy him age 10-11 elasticacted school trousers. I feel awful , I know he has such an issue with food and that he only eats a handful of things but most are the wrong things, he hasn't really wanted do much through the holidays, he has been swimming a few times and just explodes if things don't go his way. I feel exhausted all the time and to be honest I give in to him very easy. I know all the things I should do , for one not buy the pigging stuff. (Crisps and chocolate biscuits) .

i suppose I just wondered if anyone who had been through the same and could give me any strategies that they had used to help their children.

I feel like a complete failure as a mum , I'm supposed to be giving him the best in life instead I'm turning him into an overweight little boy who will probably end up with health problems if I don't handle it now. His waist measures 31 inches , which shocked the hell out of me.

sorry for going on and Thankyou for reading

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  • I have found involving my boy with growing easy things like chillies peppers herbs toatoes etc then trying new recipes and cooking together has increased the variety in his diet.I would not hide veg its like lying.Make a simple soup and blend it if he dosent like "bits".May not always work for every child but for my boy it was fun activiies that we shared.

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  • I have found involving my boy with growing easy things like chillies peppers herbs toatoes etc then trying new recipes and cooking together has increased the variety in his diet.I would not hide veg its like lying.Make a simple soup and blend it if he dosent like "bits".May not always work for every child but for my boy it was fun activiies that we shared.

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