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No diagnosis - my ex 63 years old

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Hi, anyone in similar situation.

i was married 30 confusing years. We separated 8 years ago, and im still thinking !  My son put me onto autism

he was told he had bpd - then i thought was he a narcasist, but that did not sit right as despite odd behaviour he is a good person. He refuses to talk, i feel so hurt. 

i believe we struggled with autism.  Is there a group via zoom that i can join., 

  • Yes it's devastating what happens, it's as if I was born cursed, punished, not being diagnosed, understood left in limbo and when you do manage to put all the pieces of the jigsaw together, it's to late, all the missed opportunities ,when all we do in reality is think differently, my son if I'm lucky will message me on father's  day Christmas, Birthday, and that's I believe because other family members ask him to, I often think, what have I done wrong, I was always there for him devastating. 

    • Hi. There is someone that I know well who is in your exact position!   If you are interested in making contact with them, please send me a private message so I can pass on details. Your story is their story too. Best regards