Having an Autistic Partner…

I believe I'm autistic, too, but on the waiting list to receive an official diagnosis at the age of 54.

I've been married for a long time, my partner does not have autism, but has learnt to deal with me over the years. Autism is so complex & we are all different. I can be over sensitive at times, also can take words literally, if someone tells me that they're going to do something, they don't, I struggle to understand why. I can also struggle with humour & sarcasm, knowing the boundaries. 

I'm very happy within my own family bubble, but can struggle outside of it. I have empathy though & am a very loving person. I've also learnt not to be too full on with my wife at times & also give her space when she needs it, which can be difficult if I'm trying to make a point, that point may be extremely important to me, but less so for my wife. 

With regards to your original question it's probably best to just be open & honest with your partner, tell him how you feel & what you'd like to achieve together. Then just listen to what he has to say, as both of your feelings are equally as important. 

I believe I'm autistic, too, but on the waiting list to receive an official diagnosis at the age of 54.

I've been married for a long time, my partner does not have autism, but has learnt to deal with me over the years. Autism is so complex & we are all different. I can be over sensitive at times, also can take words literally, if someone tells me that they're going to do something, they don't, I struggle to understand why. I can also struggle with humour & sarcasm, knowing the boundaries. 

I'm very happy within my own family bubble, but can struggle outside of it. I have empathy though & am a very loving person. I've also learnt not to be too full on with my wife at times & also give her space when she needs it, which can be difficult if I'm trying to make a point, that point may be extremely important to me, but less so for my wife. 

With regards to your original question it's probably best to just be open & honest with your partner, tell him how you feel & what you'd like to achieve together. Then just listen to what he has to say, as both of your feelings are equally as important.