Pros/Cons of Diagnosis

I am SENCo and teacher who specialises in ASC and have undertaken specialist training in Autism.  My brother has Asperger's Syndrome. I am certain that my 3 and a half year old daughter has Asperger's Syndrime. I work closely enough with paediatricians to know that if she walked into a paediatrician's office, she'd walk out with a diagnosis.  My dilemma however, is whether or not a diagnosis would help or hinder her as an adult. I know that a diagnosis would definitely benefit her during her school years.  I see first hand on a daily basis how beneficial it would be.  However I worry about when she is older, with her job prospects and social prospects. Would a such a label impact on her ability to find a job or a partner? She is incredibly bright and I can see already that she would be able (providing the correct social support was in place) to be employed, but would employers be put off by a diagnosis? Equally, if she found she was able to have a relationship, would prospective partners be put off? I am certain that diagnosis is 100% beneficial at school age. What are your thoughts surrounding the helpfulness of diagnosis for and adult, particularly when they are so high functioning? 

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  • Hi There,

    I have read all your and other peoples comments with interest as i am in the exact same position with my six year old son.  Suspected of ASC for a year now, first raised my his P1 class teacher.  We have had meetings regularly anduntil literally yeserday i have always been told his needs are being met by the school both emotionally and educationally.  I hae read everything ging to undersand andhelp my son as much as i can, but yestrday like a bolt of lightning they hae startedto push a formal diagnosis?  i have no idea why?!  My concerns are exactly the same as yours his future work / relationships i am making a huge decision for him!  I have been told apart from the army and police force all jobs are equally acheivable, but we all know what peoples ignorance can be like and i fear his future job prospects ( and self asteem)could be harmed? 

    I know what type of a parent i want to be too, well done you ASC professional.  I have been told nothing happens over the school holidays even ifi do decide to go with an  assessment so i am giving myself that time to decide.   also livein such a remote area of Scotland i really wonder how much more help would really be available?

     

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  • Hi There,

    I have read all your and other peoples comments with interest as i am in the exact same position with my six year old son.  Suspected of ASC for a year now, first raised my his P1 class teacher.  We have had meetings regularly anduntil literally yeserday i have always been told his needs are being met by the school both emotionally and educationally.  I hae read everything ging to undersand andhelp my son as much as i can, but yestrday like a bolt of lightning they hae startedto push a formal diagnosis?  i have no idea why?!  My concerns are exactly the same as yours his future work / relationships i am making a huge decision for him!  I have been told apart from the army and police force all jobs are equally acheivable, but we all know what peoples ignorance can be like and i fear his future job prospects ( and self asteem)could be harmed? 

    I know what type of a parent i want to be too, well done you ASC professional.  I have been told nothing happens over the school holidays even ifi do decide to go with an  assessment so i am giving myself that time to decide.   also livein such a remote area of Scotland i really wonder how much more help would really be available?

     

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