Adult female with recent Asperger Syndrome diagnosis - how are you supposed to feel?

I have thought I had the symptoms of Asperger Syndrome for the last three or four years, and my difficulty coping with things like change got to the point that I went to my doctor and asked to be referred to be assessed because I need help. My GP said I didn't have it, and he could tell because of how I dress, but he referred me anyway.

I was assessed and I was told I have Asperger Syndrome, and also Dyspraxia.

My mother, however, is convinced either it is something I have developed, or I don't have it. This is because the idea of it being genetic, or I was born that way, unsettles her. However, I know I have always felt this way, and obviously the specialist agrees. But even as a child, when teachers remarked that I had no friends, my mum did not want to believe it. The way she acts makes me feel like I am a fraud. 

Anyone else having difficulty coming to terms with a diagnosis?

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  • When doing Postgraduate studies, in the year 2000, I tried to see an educational psychologist, I was told that I was too clever, I think the N.H.S would not be able to diagnose dyspraxia as an adult.

    I may have been tested for dyslexia, but the result would have been dyspraxia.

    I have had dyspraxia, all my life causing me a history of problems( my dyspraxia is not severe).

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  • When doing Postgraduate studies, in the year 2000, I tried to see an educational psychologist, I was told that I was too clever, I think the N.H.S would not be able to diagnose dyspraxia as an adult.

    I may have been tested for dyslexia, but the result would have been dyspraxia.

    I have had dyspraxia, all my life causing me a history of problems( my dyspraxia is not severe).

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