Adult female with recent Asperger Syndrome diagnosis - how are you supposed to feel?

I have thought I had the symptoms of Asperger Syndrome for the last three or four years, and my difficulty coping with things like change got to the point that I went to my doctor and asked to be referred to be assessed because I need help. My GP said I didn't have it, and he could tell because of how I dress, but he referred me anyway.

I was assessed and I was told I have Asperger Syndrome, and also Dyspraxia.

My mother, however, is convinced either it is something I have developed, or I don't have it. This is because the idea of it being genetic, or I was born that way, unsettles her. However, I know I have always felt this way, and obviously the specialist agrees. But even as a child, when teachers remarked that I had no friends, my mum did not want to believe it. The way she acts makes me feel like I am a fraud. 

Anyone else having difficulty coming to terms with a diagnosis?

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  • From one Daisy to another, just believe the diagnosis and ignore the people who don't accept it.

    Some of my family are the same, even though I have had very severe Asperger's behaviours from childhood. 

    I am happy with the diagnosis, and it explains everything for me, about my past and present.

    If others can't accept it I just ignore them and state calmly that it is who I am.

    You are not a fraud, you are an Aspie!!

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  • From one Daisy to another, just believe the diagnosis and ignore the people who don't accept it.

    Some of my family are the same, even though I have had very severe Asperger's behaviours from childhood. 

    I am happy with the diagnosis, and it explains everything for me, about my past and present.

    If others can't accept it I just ignore them and state calmly that it is who I am.

    You are not a fraud, you are an Aspie!!

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