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Understanding your place in a relationship

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Hi I’m georgia and I have a diagnoses as well. I’ve been struggling to understand how to be in a relationship as I can’t seem to keep one. I don’t understand people at all which is ironic as I’m doing a degree in people. I guess what I’m asking is if anyone who can help, I tend to get in a muddle a lot and the people I’m with don’t understand that there’s certain things that I do differently not by choice but by nature and they find it difficult to cope with and I then find it hard to cope with everyone leaving all the time because of me not understanding what’s going on. It’s all very confusing and if I’ve made any sense I would be great fil for a pointers or even someone who’s able to understand me and this difficulty. 
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  • Hi I'm Holly and I also have a diagnosis. I've had many people leave too, old friends and people I've been in relationships with. Right now I'm in a relationship and pregnant so we are going to have to stay together or at least try for the baby's sake. I really love him but we have only been together for a year and he thinks its a woman's job to stay at home, clean and cook dinner etc. I am struggling with this, because I never thought I'd be a housewife. I believe in sharing responsibilities, but he says that if he is out working 10 hours a day and I'm home, even with a baby I should be cooking dinner at least. I think ultimately you should do what you feel is right in a relationship! If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be.

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  • Hi I'm Holly and I also have a diagnosis. I've had many people leave too, old friends and people I've been in relationships with. Right now I'm in a relationship and pregnant so we are going to have to stay together or at least try for the baby's sake. I really love him but we have only been together for a year and he thinks its a woman's job to stay at home, clean and cook dinner etc. I am struggling with this, because I never thought I'd be a housewife. I believe in sharing responsibilities, but he says that if he is out working 10 hours a day and I'm home, even with a baby I should be cooking dinner at least. I think ultimately you should do what you feel is right in a relationship! If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be.

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