Hygiene

My son is 15 and diagnosed with Autism. He absolutely hates washing, brushing teeth etc. I have tried all different types of deodorant sprays roll ons different scents you name it I've done it.  

Part of it is sensory He hates the feeling going from hot to cold etc, part of it well I'm not sure He just won't. He is beginning to become a bit pongy but he doesn't seem to care. He prefers his hair greasy which can sometimes smell not to fresh. He is also getting fungal skin infections, not sore but brown patches of skin on his body which he has cream for now.

I'm looking for ideas and advice if anyone has had to deal with this situation and if they have found something that works I would be grateful. Or if anyone feels the same about hygiene as he does could you please share how you deal with it. 

Thank you

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  • Hi there. 

    Washing: Are there alternatives to showering and bathing that he would tolerate? Because the bits that smell are the arm pits and the feet. Would your son tolerate wet wipes on those parts? Does your son like swimming and use that for washing instead.

    Cleaning teeth. I would go with Peter's comments about different choices of brush and toothpaste.

    Greasy hair. I'm guessing that he's not keen to het a haircut either? Cos a short haircut would not look so greasy. I've never used it but would he tolerate a dry shampoo product.

    Deoderants. My mum can't wear deodorants because she has multiple skin allergies, she just uses perfume instead. For your son, what is it about deodorants that affect his sensory sensitivities? 

    I guess also, is it because he goes to school that it is worrying you? My daughter isn't really into deodorant and it is the smelling at school that worries me, otherwise I try and accept her smell as much as I can. 

    Take care,

    Mrs Snooks

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  • Hi there. 

    Washing: Are there alternatives to showering and bathing that he would tolerate? Because the bits that smell are the arm pits and the feet. Would your son tolerate wet wipes on those parts? Does your son like swimming and use that for washing instead.

    Cleaning teeth. I would go with Peter's comments about different choices of brush and toothpaste.

    Greasy hair. I'm guessing that he's not keen to het a haircut either? Cos a short haircut would not look so greasy. I've never used it but would he tolerate a dry shampoo product.

    Deoderants. My mum can't wear deodorants because she has multiple skin allergies, she just uses perfume instead. For your son, what is it about deodorants that affect his sensory sensitivities? 

    I guess also, is it because he goes to school that it is worrying you? My daughter isn't really into deodorant and it is the smelling at school that worries me, otherwise I try and accept her smell as much as I can. 

    Take care,

    Mrs Snooks

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