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Supporting my very sensory son through early experiences of wet dreams

Mammajamma

My son is 12 and has no concept of sex or masturbation and is completely unaware of himself and can’t ‘feel’ when he has an erection…. But the last month he has started to experience wet dreams and it is so frequent- 3 times a week. He’s not touching himself but does stim an awful lot- and is hugely sensory. He understands the basics of what’s happening and if he wakes up ‘soggy’ as he calls it he quietly takes himself for a shower, but it’s triggering quite a strong OCD reaction( not uncommon for him- lockdown anxiety instigated toothbrushing for 45mins). So the shower lasts over 30mins and he is very down for hours after….  Any help or advice.

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  • Autistic children often need more time than typically developing children to adjust to and understand changes in their lives. If your child is well prepared for the physical changes that happen in puberty, your child is less likely to feel confused, or worry that there’s something wrong.

    There might also be other things that influence your decision. Staples Advantage Login For example, if your child has a behaviour or habit – for example, taking their clothes off – that would be best changed before puberty starts, you might start a bit earlier. Your child will need extra help to understand why they can’t take their clothes off any more.

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