Published on 12, July, 2020
Greetings anyone. Anyone who knows Me on here, may recall that I often say that although I am here, I know little about Social Media and The Internet. This Thread asks a simple question, and I hope for a simple(-ish) answer...
Please do not Quote or reference anything/anyone outside of this Thread, or else it might wind up being deleted!
I Myself sometimes "Shutdown" (I quit interaction when I can neither Reason nor 'Run away'.). But I have never to My memory had a "Meltdown", so I know less about that... I have read other Threads about it on here. ...But as I say, I have never connected the two together - Meltdown + While Using The Internet...??
I keep this OP short in hope again that it does not go off topic, much if at all. As usual, I offer apology in advance for any misunderstandings, and I try to present reasonable explanation for anything if possible... but I cannot do that if I know nothing about the subject, which is why I am asking this here. Try to Stay Well, anyone reading.
Oh yes I can, the meltdowns for me are perhaps more letting off steam due to the perception of:-
To close and imposing by those in power.
Not felt listened to - my needs and nothing more
TOO MUCH INFORMATION
condescension and dictatorship rather than combined collaboration in a supportive way
I know what I am good at, so do others in the Business, as well as where I need help FROM DAMAGEMENT. FFS listen to me, read the signs, spot the body language and STOP/LOOK/LISTEN otherwise the Hulk comes out to play.
I can then go back into my world of work to de-stress
What you’ve said are your triggers would apply to me too, but usually in the home environment rather than work. Massive triggers for me include: People not listening; people giving completely irrational reasons for their decisions and actions despite the rational way having been pointed out clearly and concisely by myself; people behaving in irrational ways just to be antagonistic (in my opinion); people trying to impose their view or will onto me when I don’t agree and don’t want to do whatever it is because I don’t agree with it; people giving me too much information at once and taking ages to do so.