Just had my first appointment, need some help.

So basically I've just returned from my first appointment at my local community mental health centre after being referred by my GP.

I felt that the conversation I had when there was very broad and didn't really take into account any wider points, specifically more related to Asperger's. The majority of the question were about the social side of things, which I understand is obviously a big part of AS, but other characteristics affects me too and make life difficult.

All in all we spoke for only 15 to 20 minutes before she concluded I don't have AS, that I have social anxiety and depression and tried to pit me on a course of anti-depressants. She said she'd book me another appointment to see her in 3 months, and one to see a psychiatrist about the social anxiety. I declined the medication, not least because I'm not depressed, but also because I am put off by side effects and such.

I understand how social anxiety can be very closely related to AS, but I feel she didn't listen to or pay any attention to the other characteristics and such that are covered by the umbrella that is AS. Obviously some days I feel 'down' about things, but it's very far from being depressed and I feel as if they've just made an extremely quick decision in trying to offer me anti depressants before fully understanding everything.

Should I just continue and go to the appointment in 3 months, and the one with the psychiatrist, or should I go back to my GP and try and get referred to someone else who may pay more attention to me?

I probably should've mentioned, I'm 20.

Thanks for any advice/help :)

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  • @Haythml

    If you had a little reflection on what you've just said...you might think about the roles a person constructs just to get through school. I don't know if I am like my partner who has been diagnosed and has all the classic symptoms but I've read enough message boards to know that there is a massive spectrum of people out there...even those who have been diagnosed as 'mild'...where I can't seem to function is in the "Theory of Mind" capabilities. Constructive comments appreciated...not such a big fan of sarcasm...does that kind of thing win awards?

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  • @Haythml

    If you had a little reflection on what you've just said...you might think about the roles a person constructs just to get through school. I don't know if I am like my partner who has been diagnosed and has all the classic symptoms but I've read enough message boards to know that there is a massive spectrum of people out there...even those who have been diagnosed as 'mild'...where I can't seem to function is in the "Theory of Mind" capabilities. Constructive comments appreciated...not such a big fan of sarcasm...does that kind of thing win awards?

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