Is my husband on the spectrum?

I have suspected for some time that my husband might be 'on the spectrum' as well as our son, and he admits himself that he was a strange child who didn't make friends and struggled with some schoolwork (though he now has a Cambridge degree!). Any tips on getting an assessment for him? Does it have to go through the GP or are there affordable private methods (it's very difficult to get him to go to the doctor).

I feel that if he had a diagnosis, I would cope better with aspects of his behaviour, knowing there was a neurological reason for them, rather than him just being awkward!

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  • Having a son with autism i recognise that i share lots of his symptoms (more and more all the time)  and my wife is pretty sure that im on the AS. From my irrational obsession with having my cds, books, games all alphabetical; to the feeling of dread when my wife wants to use MY PC (she has a laptop so why use mine), and my fear of going out shopping for anything (not just clothes shopping for the wife  ). Looking back i used to get my mum to buy records for me upto to being around 19 because i couldnt face going into the shop.

    My wife is an utter angel for putting up with me and my son, because if its not my son off on the rampage its me over silly things like her starting to vacuum the room from the wrong place, or not washing the cups after the plates and so on.

    Booked into see the Dr after xmas so will post up what he thinks after ive been.

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  • Having a son with autism i recognise that i share lots of his symptoms (more and more all the time)  and my wife is pretty sure that im on the AS. From my irrational obsession with having my cds, books, games all alphabetical; to the feeling of dread when my wife wants to use MY PC (she has a laptop so why use mine), and my fear of going out shopping for anything (not just clothes shopping for the wife  ). Looking back i used to get my mum to buy records for me upto to being around 19 because i couldnt face going into the shop.

    My wife is an utter angel for putting up with me and my son, because if its not my son off on the rampage its me over silly things like her starting to vacuum the room from the wrong place, or not washing the cups after the plates and so on.

    Booked into see the Dr after xmas so will post up what he thinks after ive been.

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