Do non Autistics intuitively "know" how to act and communicate?

I read on this website that "Other people appear to know, intuitively, how to communicate and interact with each other, but Autistics do not", but believe this statement to be completely untrue in so many ways.

I do not believe that there is any one way to interact and communicate and nor do i believe anyone, even non autistic could possibly be thought of as someone that "knows" how to act and communicate in every given situation.

I believe making wrong statements like this just causes confusion.

Would do you think?

Do you think there are people out there that just intuitively "know" how to act and communicate? In that case, what happens when they come across someone that has more experience and is more intelligent than them?

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  • I read on this website that "Other people appear to know, intuitively, how to communicate and interact with each other, but Autistics do not", but believe this statement to be completely untrue in so many ways.

    You have proved this point in a stunning fashion. Your communication and reasoning skills are stunningly bad. I'd imagine this is why you are trying to garner attention past midnight on a forum for Autistics. It must be terribly lonely.

    I do not believe that there is any one way to interact and communicate and nor do i believe anyone, even non autistic could possibly be thought of as someone that "knows" how to act and communicate in every given situation.

    Yes, this is called a subjective matter. Nuance. Your mother sure got communication wrong, when she decided not to fake her usual headache the night you were concieved. Sorry that was rude, I think, or maybe I don't know how to communicate.

    I believe making wrong statements like this just causes confusion.

    I don't agree with the statement you quote, it's a generalisation. It's also a generalisation to assume that every Autistic person holds this view or "neurotypical" person either.

    Would do you think?

    I think your mother should have taught you to spell.

    Do you think there are people out there that just intuitively "know" how to act and communicate?

    Nope, I don't. All people are different. Autistic and "neurotypical". It's a bit odd that you don't understand the way the world works.

    In that case, what happens when they come across someone that has more experience and is more intelligent than them?

    Anything could happen. Literally anything. Experience in what? Intelligence measured by what metric? I have a high IQ but I couldn't help making jokes about your mother.

    I've got to ask why you are here. I find it hilarious. Had a few too many beers tonight? You are either trolling or seriously here to get us to answer questions about you, why don't you ask your mother, if she isn't busy entertaining Spanish sailors. Lol, sorry I couldn't help myself. I'm not going to feel bad about myself, I really don't give a *** what you think. I just don't get why people are taking you seriously.

  • Sorry i do not understand your outburst nor what my Mother has to do with this.

    If you re-read what i said in my OP, i was actually not saying the things you attribute to me.

    Therefore everything else you said after that was completely wrong.

    However you have gave me a very good insight in to something i did not expect to find, and unfortunately i was completely wrong earlier.

    Now i apologise for upsetting you.

    I am going to leave now, but please understand if i, as a neurotypical, was to speak to anyone the way you spoke to me i would be taken away with handcuffs on.

  • Sorry i do not understand your outburst nor what my Mother has to do with this.

    You don't understand much. Ask your mother, I've heard she's quite experienced.

    Now i apologise for upsetting you.

    You didn't upset me. Lol, I had fun.

    I am going to leave now, but please understand if i, as a neurotypical, was to speak to anyone the way you spoke to me i would be taken away with handcuffs on.

    Hahaha, OK don't let the door hit you on the way out. Lol, you wouldn't be led away in handcuffs, stop being so silly. Is taking the piss out of an idiot a crime? Bye.

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  • Sorry i do not understand your outburst nor what my Mother has to do with this.

    You don't understand much. Ask your mother, I've heard she's quite experienced.

    Now i apologise for upsetting you.

    You didn't upset me. Lol, I had fun.

    I am going to leave now, but please understand if i, as a neurotypical, was to speak to anyone the way you spoke to me i would be taken away with handcuffs on.

    Hahaha, OK don't let the door hit you on the way out. Lol, you wouldn't be led away in handcuffs, stop being so silly. Is taking the piss out of an idiot a crime? Bye.

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  • Hi cloudy, if nothing else at least it brought the community together,

    we supported each other when it was needed.

     So not a complete loss.

    Maybe NAS could edit the title and retitle it as “ How to deal with antagonistic individuals who portray to be kind and inquisitive “.

    Well I might just get some sleep now, nite nite to those still awake, take care all. () 

  • There are neurodiverse people, neurotypical people and people that are just ***. Luckily *** are the minority in both groups. I think he just thought that he'd waste a few hours feeling superior, knowing deep down he was a ***. I think he knows.

  • Well wasn’t that intriguing!

    I hadn’t got anything better to do anyway, 

    helped while away a few minutes. 

    May I just say this type of individual usually gets pleasure asking a question but enjoys arguing with any replies he receives, a bad person full stop, I do not count him as being like all NT people. In fact he may well have issues himself?

    I do hope he now knows what it is to be a minority’s Lol.