What keeps you fighting?

What keeps you going? Limited friends and the day to day can be tiring..,.,,

What keeps you going, what makes you smile and gives you hope?, what makes you laugh and gives you the motivation to get out of bed in the morning?

Another silly thread of mine, but I've had a tough day...looking for inspiration guys....dig deep people..

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    My mum knew that I find life difficult and even at my lowest points she kept prompting me. She said think of 3 good things each day. It's surprising that even doing that can just keep me going. It can be anything, anything at all from a squeak from my guinea pig , a friendly text or message, a butterfly dancing on the butterfly bush, something funny on the radio, mending something that's been waiting or achievement from the to do list.. or a bit more of your hobby of the moment.. whatever it is find 3 things.  The radio 4 xtra or radio comedy or plays or audiobooks /podcasts are something I rely on. Finding a comedian that you really enjoy who you know will make you laugh .. we're all different so our choices will be. Researching a topic or topics or looking at ideas and websites on your interest like Pinterest or etsy or whatever is your choice. If energy getting out to the fields , going for a drive to get out and finding something interesting or amazing to look at. They're all little every day doable things but these things do help me. On a really bad day I might watch films all day. Anyway these are just a few things I'll probably think of others. I go to sleep listening to something too, sometimes it's gardeners question time or Scotland outdoors, or something like gloomsbury and sometimes it's YouTube sound of a running stream it makes me keep concentrating on that ( doesn't always work but quite often) . 

  • So Misfit...,what were your there good things (so far) today?

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to .

    My 3 things .. I let a stranger into my house, he did his work and left and it was ok

    the Sun was shining enough so Bertie could graze grass on the lawn

    I have had very kind people to chat with and an email from a friend 

    lots of things to be grateful for today 

    how about you? 

  • . said:
    • I got to talk to talk to you and Spotty...and everyone else.....it really helps and feels v.positive
    • i heard from my son who is away on cadet camp.....his phone died.....and he's good and chipper
    • my son told me that he met one of my students at camp who described me as awesome...which was sweet...hope he feels the same way when he gets his GCSE result next week!

    :)

  • Certainly keeping me sane...definitely taking it forward...thank you mother Misfit! 

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to .

    This is awesome bringing tears to my eyes my mum would be so pleased 3 good things is helping us all

    1. I got to talk to talk to you and Spotty...and everyone else.....it really helps and feels v.positive
    2. i heard from my son who is away on cadet camp.....his phone died.....and he's good and chipper
    3. my son told me that he met one of my students at camp who described me as awesome...which was sweet...hope he feels the same way when he gets his GCSE result next week!
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    1. I got to talk to talk to you and Spotty...and everyone else.....it really helps and feels v.positive
    2. i heard from my son who is away on cadet camp.....his phone died.....and he's good and chipper
    3. my son told me that he met one of my students at camp who described me as awesome...which was sweet...hope he feels the same way when he gets his GCSE result next week!
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