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Forever Alone

StephenHarris

So, I found this subreddit...

Does anyone here feel that they fall under this category? It's my birthday soon, I'll be turning 31 and I've never even been on so much as a date. In the US, it was estimated in 2008 that c.3% of men fall into this category (virgin at 30-34), but that doesn't make me feel massively better.

I want someone to share my life with...

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  • HungryCaterpillar said:

    The above being said, I can only but make speculations from your original reference to the number of male virgins in the US. Does that mean sex is more important to you at this stage than romantic attachment? I'm not knocking you if it is, as that's perfectly valid. However, you have to be honest with yourself as to what you're actually prioritising - sex or love - as it kinda dictates the appropriate course of action, as well as the goals you should be aiming for. If it's simply sex you're after, that's a whole lot easier... as there are numerous avenues towards losing one's virginity.

    As a Christian, I want a romantic attachment that leads to a marriage in which sex will be an important part. As for the virgin reference, it's rather dispirting to know that many people have gotten lucky while you're having to shake hands with the unemployed just to deal with the stress...

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  • HungryCaterpillar said:

    The above being said, I can only but make speculations from your original reference to the number of male virgins in the US. Does that mean sex is more important to you at this stage than romantic attachment? I'm not knocking you if it is, as that's perfectly valid. However, you have to be honest with yourself as to what you're actually prioritising - sex or love - as it kinda dictates the appropriate course of action, as well as the goals you should be aiming for. If it's simply sex you're after, that's a whole lot easier... as there are numerous avenues towards losing one's virginity.

    As a Christian, I want a romantic attachment that leads to a marriage in which sex will be an important part. As for the virgin reference, it's rather dispirting to know that many people have gotten lucky while you're having to shake hands with the unemployed just to deal with the stress...

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