Forever Alone

So, I found this subreddit...

Does anyone here feel that they fall under this category? It's my birthday soon, I'll be turning 31 and I've never even been on so much as a date. In the US, it was estimated in 2008 that c.3% of men fall into this category (virgin at 30-34), but that doesn't make me feel massively better.

I want someone to share my life with...

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  • Hi

    Just wondering if you have tried other options before the dating websites?

    What stuff do you like doing?  Do you like reading, theatre, sports, skydiving, dancing etc?

    I met my husband when I wasn't looking for anyone.  Similarly some of the happiest couples I know met their spouses/partners when they were just getting on with doing things (at work, in a local walking group, on an evening course learning italian, in a hospital, etc).

    If there is something that you enjoy and feel comfortable doing then you may find that you get on with someone who also does that particular thing.  You'll know straight away that you already have something in common.

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  • Hi

    Just wondering if you have tried other options before the dating websites?

    What stuff do you like doing?  Do you like reading, theatre, sports, skydiving, dancing etc?

    I met my husband when I wasn't looking for anyone.  Similarly some of the happiest couples I know met their spouses/partners when they were just getting on with doing things (at work, in a local walking group, on an evening course learning italian, in a hospital, etc).

    If there is something that you enjoy and feel comfortable doing then you may find that you get on with someone who also does that particular thing.  You'll know straight away that you already have something in common.

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