Friendships with those with ASD (how to be helpful)

ok so I really like a guy who has ASD 

whats the problem I hear you say?! 

I fear I am the cause of a lot of his stress and anxiety! Just by being me! 

I like him for him. He's really lovely! I just don't want to be the cause of his stress. I want to be helpful! i think he knows I like him. But I don't think that's reciprocated which is sad but it is what it is! 

I just want him to be happy and at ease when we work together! 

Can you give me some ideas of how to be more understanding, helpful and just less of a cause of his anxiety! I figure a better understanding will help more than trying to change me! 

But it any pointers to help me be a better friend at least?

what should/could I do to help him feel easy and happier! 

Thanks 

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  • Yeah absolutley. My Daughter is Autistic and patience, understanding and knowing him/her is key. you are doing the right thing. If you want to know more about Autism, please see other areas of this website or if you want i can try to help as I do have a basic qualificaion in Autism. It would be nice to see how you get on. Autism is so fascinating.

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  • Yeah absolutley. My Daughter is Autistic and patience, understanding and knowing him/her is key. you are doing the right thing. If you want to know more about Autism, please see other areas of this website or if you want i can try to help as I do have a basic qualificaion in Autism. It would be nice to see how you get on. Autism is so fascinating.

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