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Bullying at work

shoekitten

I really don't know if I'm paranoid or I'm being bullied for real. My supervisor constantly puts a negative spin on anything I acheive at work. She mentioned my off putting personality during my monthly appraisal. One month she told me to step my game up and take charge more, the next month she accused me of being bossy. She constantly overloads me with more work than my colleagues, If I say anything she replies " well if you can't do it you're letting the team down".

I confided in her that I suspected I may have Aspergers (only because she was brow beating me about getting upset at work) I begged her not to take it further but she has now told my manager, Occupation Health and Human Resources. I'm worried sick now as I don't know how to deal with these meetings. Help...anyone?

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  • I can't have a witness for a monthly supervision meeting. it's a 1-1 session. I can't prove anything. It seems my colleagues think she is great,they all have things in common to talk about such as family and TV soaps, which excludes me. They have worked together for years and I've only been there 15 months. It's my word against hers.

    When I come out of these meetings my mind is so overloaded any notes I make are completely unintelligible. Once I went to the toilet to cry because I was so upset. She followed me in and asked if there was anything she could do to help me cope better with my workload,implying I couldn't do my job properly.

    I always complete all my work, I plan ahead and achieve all the goals she sets me. By evening I'm so overloaded mentally all I can do is sit quietly and try to de-stress .I think this is why insomnia has come back with a vengence.

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  • I can't have a witness for a monthly supervision meeting. it's a 1-1 session. I can't prove anything. It seems my colleagues think she is great,they all have things in common to talk about such as family and TV soaps, which excludes me. They have worked together for years and I've only been there 15 months. It's my word against hers.

    When I come out of these meetings my mind is so overloaded any notes I make are completely unintelligible. Once I went to the toilet to cry because I was so upset. She followed me in and asked if there was anything she could do to help me cope better with my workload,implying I couldn't do my job properly.

    I always complete all my work, I plan ahead and achieve all the goals she sets me. By evening I'm so overloaded mentally all I can do is sit quietly and try to de-stress .I think this is why insomnia has come back with a vengence.

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