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Bullying at work

shoekitten

I really don't know if I'm paranoid or I'm being bullied for real. My supervisor constantly puts a negative spin on anything I acheive at work. She mentioned my off putting personality during my monthly appraisal. One month she told me to step my game up and take charge more, the next month she accused me of being bossy. She constantly overloads me with more work than my colleagues, If I say anything she replies " well if you can't do it you're letting the team down".

I confided in her that I suspected I may have Aspergers (only because she was brow beating me about getting upset at work) I begged her not to take it further but she has now told my manager, Occupation Health and Human Resources. I'm worried sick now as I don't know how to deal with these meetings. Help...anyone?

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  • Im in a similar situation, I cant get into work at the moment I'm for the first time ever standing up against the bullies (well I'm trying too)! I went to Citazens advice and spoke to a very nice lady who wrote a letter to my employers about the way I am being treated. Its not the sort of thing I would normally do but I have a child and bills to pay so unfortunatly I cant just walk away which I would really prefer to do. The lady I spoke to said my employers have broken many rules one of which is confidentiallity which they seem to have done with you too. Rather than struggling on think about going for help. I to have to go to meetings and at the moment I cant see past getting into the same room as them let alone talk, but the lady from citazens advice said she will support me through it and I like her so we will see....

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  • Im in a similar situation, I cant get into work at the moment I'm for the first time ever standing up against the bullies (well I'm trying too)! I went to Citazens advice and spoke to a very nice lady who wrote a letter to my employers about the way I am being treated. Its not the sort of thing I would normally do but I have a child and bills to pay so unfortunatly I cant just walk away which I would really prefer to do. The lady I spoke to said my employers have broken many rules one of which is confidentiallity which they seem to have done with you too. Rather than struggling on think about going for help. I to have to go to meetings and at the moment I cant see past getting into the same room as them let alone talk, but the lady from citazens advice said she will support me through it and I like her so we will see....

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