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Bullying at work

shoekitten

I really don't know if I'm paranoid or I'm being bullied for real. My supervisor constantly puts a negative spin on anything I acheive at work. She mentioned my off putting personality during my monthly appraisal. One month she told me to step my game up and take charge more, the next month she accused me of being bossy. She constantly overloads me with more work than my colleagues, If I say anything she replies " well if you can't do it you're letting the team down".

I confided in her that I suspected I may have Aspergers (only because she was brow beating me about getting upset at work) I begged her not to take it further but she has now told my manager, Occupation Health and Human Resources. I'm worried sick now as I don't know how to deal with these meetings. Help...anyone?

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  • Thanks for the advice and sharing your personal experience. I feel better knowing that it's not my paranoia if it happens to other people. I will take on board all the advice here and start making notes of dates, times and what is being said. Unfortunately I can't record voices.

    The worst thing about the whole situation is that I absolutely love my job. I work with profoundly disabled adults which is so rewarding . Since this has begun I spend my nights worrying about going to work in addition to constantly looking over my shoulder all day. I feel like a have a big lead ball made from worry in my stomach and can't sleep, I already have insomnia so I'm tired all the time.

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  • Thanks for the advice and sharing your personal experience. I feel better knowing that it's not my paranoia if it happens to other people. I will take on board all the advice here and start making notes of dates, times and what is being said. Unfortunately I can't record voices.

    The worst thing about the whole situation is that I absolutely love my job. I work with profoundly disabled adults which is so rewarding . Since this has begun I spend my nights worrying about going to work in addition to constantly looking over my shoulder all day. I feel like a have a big lead ball made from worry in my stomach and can't sleep, I already have insomnia so I'm tired all the time.

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