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Bullying at work

shoekitten

I really don't know if I'm paranoid or I'm being bullied for real. My supervisor constantly puts a negative spin on anything I acheive at work. She mentioned my off putting personality during my monthly appraisal. One month she told me to step my game up and take charge more, the next month she accused me of being bossy. She constantly overloads me with more work than my colleagues, If I say anything she replies " well if you can't do it you're letting the team down".

I confided in her that I suspected I may have Aspergers (only because she was brow beating me about getting upset at work) I begged her not to take it further but she has now told my manager, Occupation Health and Human Resources. I'm worried sick now as I don't know how to deal with these meetings. Help...anyone?

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  • Thanks, I feel as though she will now try to use AS to make me seem paranoid and anxious rather than the underlying cause which is her.  Today I had trouble remembering a list of 5 things she wanted me to do. I asked her to repeat the last item and she said  very loudly " do you need me to write it all down?" in the most patronising tone EVER.

    I'm pretty sure most people wouldn't remember a list of 5 complicated requests...

    I just feel so undermined, anxious and really don't want to be there anymore. In typical AS fashion I don't like change either so my options seem to be.

    1 Stay there and never have a proper sleep again, and feel depressed and anxious everyday.

    2. Look for another job, in a recession. Uncertainty, more anxiety and depression.

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  • Thanks, I feel as though she will now try to use AS to make me seem paranoid and anxious rather than the underlying cause which is her.  Today I had trouble remembering a list of 5 things she wanted me to do. I asked her to repeat the last item and she said  very loudly " do you need me to write it all down?" in the most patronising tone EVER.

    I'm pretty sure most people wouldn't remember a list of 5 complicated requests...

    I just feel so undermined, anxious and really don't want to be there anymore. In typical AS fashion I don't like change either so my options seem to be.

    1 Stay there and never have a proper sleep again, and feel depressed and anxious everyday.

    2. Look for another job, in a recession. Uncertainty, more anxiety and depression.

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