Anxiety over women and my 'natural urges'

I have a particular anxiety over women in a state of undress... to wit pretty much showing any skin at all... (the current crop top fashion has not helped).

For example, if I'm walking past Victoria's Secret (who is this Victoria lady anyway? She's useless at keeping secrets, that's for sure), I'll look at the pictures of the models in the window... then feel guilty for doing so.

I'm still a virgin as well... but I want to get married and have sex... but I fear I'll never meet anyone and that I'm ugly.

Sometimes, I think I should just have my testicles removed as I'll never use them and they just cause me problems...

Any advice?

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  • I reccomend "Manhood" by Steve Biddulph. There is a good chapter in there about "coralling the stallion" . And don't listen to "The Donald" ha ha.

    I was once told by my ex-wife its OK to have fantasies as long as you don't act on them.

    I talk in my sleep you see so she listened to my dreams.

    How old are you if you don.t mind me asking?

    Laddie.

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  • I reccomend "Manhood" by Steve Biddulph. There is a good chapter in there about "coralling the stallion" . And don't listen to "The Donald" ha ha.

    I was once told by my ex-wife its OK to have fantasies as long as you don't act on them.

    I talk in my sleep you see so she listened to my dreams.

    How old are you if you don.t mind me asking?

    Laddie.

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