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Hi, I was going to post this in my other thread on neighbour problems.

One thing I am annoyed about is that my neighbours never communicate with me, unless they want something. OK I may have problems socialising and general chat, but I would guess most of those do not. Even if they don't want to be friendly with me, you would have though they would want to maintain some very loose sociable contact from time to time, as they are likely to want something from me in the future. 

I spent a very brief period in my past working and living in New Zealand / Australia. It is something totally different. That was in 1997 and 2008, just 3 weeks in New Zealand in 2008. Literally after my 28 hour flight where I desperately wanted to go to bed. I was up for a further 9 hours socialising with the person I was renting a holday home from, invited to a social wine tasting drinks with several people, then invited by people there to join them next week for a chat and a meal. Within that brief time, I have had more social contact with my neighbours than a decade of living here.

Similar in 1997, although it was nearly 3 months in Sydney, Melbourne, and Aukland

In Sydney, during a month stay, I was invited to a meal with a friend of a work colleague, I was taking a week off work and she kindly offered me the use of her spare granny annex, car, and phone (to UK) for free (I did pay her when I left, as I felt that was the right thing to do). 

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  • Thanks, my thoughts I think are getting clouded by recent problems. I now remember a neighbor the other side of the road, he would always have a brief chat with me, but we never socialised. He retired and moved some years ago to New Zealand. There was a nice lady further up the road, who would occaisionally talk to me when cutting the grass, again I think she has moved out some time ago.

    Had a bit of a strange experience on another forum; when we had the high winds a few years back. There was a thread people were discussing on it, and another forum member recognised that I was only several houses down the road. I still exchange messages with him, but was never able to make more of a social thing about it. Again he caught me when he was cutting the grass, and introduced himself.

    I have worked full time most of my life, and by the time I get home I am very exhausted. At weekends I have to catch up with all the other life problems. I have tried to keep Sunday's as a day of rest, have not been able to do that.

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  • Thanks, my thoughts I think are getting clouded by recent problems. I now remember a neighbor the other side of the road, he would always have a brief chat with me, but we never socialised. He retired and moved some years ago to New Zealand. There was a nice lady further up the road, who would occaisionally talk to me when cutting the grass, again I think she has moved out some time ago.

    Had a bit of a strange experience on another forum; when we had the high winds a few years back. There was a thread people were discussing on it, and another forum member recognised that I was only several houses down the road. I still exchange messages with him, but was never able to make more of a social thing about it. Again he caught me when he was cutting the grass, and introduced himself.

    I have worked full time most of my life, and by the time I get home I am very exhausted. At weekends I have to catch up with all the other life problems. I have tried to keep Sunday's as a day of rest, have not been able to do that.

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