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Hi. I recently met my now ex partner on a dating site, we met up and the realtionship went really well, he told me he had austism which didnt bother me, it made him him! Yesterday I received a text message telling me he didnt want the relationship, i thought fine,  after 6 months i want an explation, we met up & he explained that he is still in love with me but the austism is stopping his ability to be in a relationship, we have agreed  stay friends however I need to understand? I'm hoping someone can shed some light on this situation for me? 

Thanks T

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  • He says that he has never got the help or support he needed from any health care provider he feels like they have given up on him aswell as everyone else. 

    I think what you said regarding going round and round in circles your completely correct, we shout and scream then say sorry then have the same conversation two minutes after. Last night I have told him to get in contact with me when he sorts his head out or if he needs me, this is a very hard thing to do but i feel like I need to focus on myself and get my self sorted before I can be there for him. 

    Is there much help that is avaliable to him? Because I think he needs it, he has got a lot of problems That he has never dealt with. 

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  • He says that he has never got the help or support he needed from any health care provider he feels like they have given up on him aswell as everyone else. 

    I think what you said regarding going round and round in circles your completely correct, we shout and scream then say sorry then have the same conversation two minutes after. Last night I have told him to get in contact with me when he sorts his head out or if he needs me, this is a very hard thing to do but i feel like I need to focus on myself and get my self sorted before I can be there for him. 

    Is there much help that is avaliable to him? Because I think he needs it, he has got a lot of problems That he has never dealt with. 

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