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Trying to understand?

Tryingtounderstand

Hi. I recently met my now ex partner on a dating site, we met up and the realtionship went really well, he told me he had austism which didnt bother me, it made him him! Yesterday I received a text message telling me he didnt want the relationship, i thought fine,  after 6 months i want an explation, we met up & he explained that he is still in love with me but the austism is stopping his ability to be in a relationship, we have agreed  stay friends however I need to understand? I'm hoping someone can shed some light on this situation for me? 

Thanks T

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  • So we spoke all day yesterday he didn't want to talk about it so I just brushed it under the carpet for a while, as I don't want to push him into anything, I explained that I'm trying to understand, his reply was "ive been lost in the system for years you'll never get it" 

    today we had a blow up I said one thing he didn't like and it All went of, he does this quite often i call them his moments he goes into himself and doesn't want to talk, however hes not eating or seeing his friends he's got history of depression and I just don't think it's fair to walk away. However I feel like I'm loosing my mind 

    thanks

    T

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  • So we spoke all day yesterday he didn't want to talk about it so I just brushed it under the carpet for a while, as I don't want to push him into anything, I explained that I'm trying to understand, his reply was "ive been lost in the system for years you'll never get it" 

    today we had a blow up I said one thing he didn't like and it All went of, he does this quite often i call them his moments he goes into himself and doesn't want to talk, however hes not eating or seeing his friends he's got history of depression and I just don't think it's fair to walk away. However I feel like I'm loosing my mind 

    thanks

    T

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