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Trying to understand?

Tryingtounderstand

Hi. I recently met my now ex partner on a dating site, we met up and the realtionship went really well, he told me he had austism which didnt bother me, it made him him! Yesterday I received a text message telling me he didnt want the relationship, i thought fine,  after 6 months i want an explation, we met up & he explained that he is still in love with me but the austism is stopping his ability to be in a relationship, we have agreed  stay friends however I need to understand? I'm hoping someone can shed some light on this situation for me? 

Thanks T

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  • Okay so what I'm picking up is, I need to let him know exactly how I feel using facts, could these be what we done in our relationship that made us laugh/smile? 

    I also need to reassure him that Ill always be there for him, and I'm trying to understand? 

    He doesn't come from a stable family at all and I am more than worried about him because he told me that before I came along his life was a mess, i want to be able to support him the way his family doesnt? 

    im going to get that book as it is very important for me to be able to understand and help him, also there isnt much out there as to this subject?

    Thanks 

    T

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  • Okay so what I'm picking up is, I need to let him know exactly how I feel using facts, could these be what we done in our relationship that made us laugh/smile? 

    I also need to reassure him that Ill always be there for him, and I'm trying to understand? 

    He doesn't come from a stable family at all and I am more than worried about him because he told me that before I came along his life was a mess, i want to be able to support him the way his family doesnt? 

    im going to get that book as it is very important for me to be able to understand and help him, also there isnt much out there as to this subject?

    Thanks 

    T

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