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Tryingtounderstand

Hi. I recently met my now ex partner on a dating site, we met up and the realtionship went really well, he told me he had austism which didnt bother me, it made him him! Yesterday I received a text message telling me he didnt want the relationship, i thought fine,  after 6 months i want an explation, we met up & he explained that he is still in love with me but the austism is stopping his ability to be in a relationship, we have agreed  stay friends however I need to understand? I'm hoping someone can shed some light on this situation for me? 

Thanks T

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  • I just can't get in his head, and I will never be able to, he thinks I'm not cut out to deal with him, how can he make that decision for me? do I get no say in this? 

    I was previously in a seven year relationship, and I never loved my ex like I love him. 

    its horrible to say but part of me hopes he's hurting like i am, and then the other part doesn't because he can't deal with his emotions. He used to tell me he misses people for like a day then gets over it, is this correct?

    i don't know how I can make it work because I have so many questions it's just not making sence in my head?

    your advice is a massive help to me 

    thanks 

    T 

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  • I just can't get in his head, and I will never be able to, he thinks I'm not cut out to deal with him, how can he make that decision for me? do I get no say in this? 

    I was previously in a seven year relationship, and I never loved my ex like I love him. 

    its horrible to say but part of me hopes he's hurting like i am, and then the other part doesn't because he can't deal with his emotions. He used to tell me he misses people for like a day then gets over it, is this correct?

    i don't know how I can make it work because I have so many questions it's just not making sence in my head?

    your advice is a massive help to me 

    thanks 

    T 

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