Self diagnosed Aspie

Hi all, i'm looking for a bit of advice, i guess.  I recently bought a book on Aspergers to learn about a condition we think my son has.  Someone who knows me well said, 'that's you' just before i started it.  That comment barely registered.  Then i started the book and got the shock of my life.  It was like reading my life story!  Everything slowly dropped into place; always been a bit different, crap at sport as a kid, last one to be picked for games, on the outskirts of the group or ostracised, etc.  Each section of the book revealed more connections.  I have no doubt i have Aspergers Syndrome despite having done the Cambridge test and getting 24.  I believe i have trained myself into different ways of thinking.  I have over ridden a lot of the traits with my mnd in an attaempt to fit in; to be Neuro typical.  Does this ring true for anybody else?  I was thinking get a diagnosis but am now thinking it will be too much hassle.  What kind of help could it be to do that?  I live a fully functional working life already.  I have some daily anxiety around a particular issue but how many people don't?  Any thoughts welcome, please.  Thank you.

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  • I feel the same ... the more I learn about my sons the more convinced I have autism myself.  I looked at aspergerstest.net and scored over 30 which reaffirmed my suspicions even more.  Just not sure what to do ... I function well in life and manage at work ... I live with anxiety which I actively try to deal with.  I'm just not sure whether to pursue a diagnosis or carry on as I am.

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  • I feel the same ... the more I learn about my sons the more convinced I have autism myself.  I looked at aspergerstest.net and scored over 30 which reaffirmed my suspicions even more.  Just not sure what to do ... I function well in life and manage at work ... I live with anxiety which I actively try to deal with.  I'm just not sure whether to pursue a diagnosis or carry on as I am.

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