Dinner issues

Having on going issues with our son and eating.

His 14yrs old and refuses to eat any meals with us...he refuses sandwich or dinners

At school..he wants to eat in his bedroom alone....this is causing major issues at home

We tried saying you could set away from us...in the kitchen or up the table...but no he

Will not have any off it.....

He seems to want to totally isolated himself....causing major issue's here..

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  • Reading down and I think whilst you may want him to eat with you all, I actually think for his own happiness here - allow him to have his meals on his own when he wants to. There no reason why he shouldn't. Buy a tray and encourage him to carry his own meals to his room and bring the plate down when he comes down so you not doing any extra work. Happiness all round then. 

    He may seem more isolated to you, but may be it what he needs after a full day of school where he can't go and shut himself off.

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  • Reading down and I think whilst you may want him to eat with you all, I actually think for his own happiness here - allow him to have his meals on his own when he wants to. There no reason why he shouldn't. Buy a tray and encourage him to carry his own meals to his room and bring the plate down when he comes down so you not doing any extra work. Happiness all round then. 

    He may seem more isolated to you, but may be it what he needs after a full day of school where he can't go and shut himself off.

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