A solution to relationships?

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  • Hi Dan,

    I read your post with interest and commend you on your honesty.

    I'm NT (apologies for that) who is in a relationship with a wonderful AS man. We met online through a dating site, and what fascinated me about his profile was his honesty and obvious integrity (he hadn't been diagnosed at this stage). I wasn't really looking for a relationship, I was lonely and in need of local friends and didn't know where to find any!! We subsequently clicked and have built a successful relationship - not without it's challenges. It can be done, I think our initial success was that we weren't expecting too much from each other at the first meeting.

    As for your relationships with escort ladies, good for you, if this works and keeps you from loneliness, then carry on. I've always considered a professional escort, professional being the key word here, as someone who plays a very important role in Society and shouldn't be treated shoddily. The fact that some of them are seeking to meet with you off the clock confirms that they find you a good person and obviously enjoy your company.

    Dating can be an expensive business, (I'm content with a pint of bitter and bag of chips!) and the right woman will be delighted with whatever you can offer as it's your company they should be interested in - not what you can financially afford.

    I hope that the day may come when the right person appears in your life and you can build a good relationship, in the meantime, I applaud your honesty, carry on, you are hurting no-one and looking after yourself and your emotional well being.

    Good luck.

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  • Hi Dan,

    I read your post with interest and commend you on your honesty.

    I'm NT (apologies for that) who is in a relationship with a wonderful AS man. We met online through a dating site, and what fascinated me about his profile was his honesty and obvious integrity (he hadn't been diagnosed at this stage). I wasn't really looking for a relationship, I was lonely and in need of local friends and didn't know where to find any!! We subsequently clicked and have built a successful relationship - not without it's challenges. It can be done, I think our initial success was that we weren't expecting too much from each other at the first meeting.

    As for your relationships with escort ladies, good for you, if this works and keeps you from loneliness, then carry on. I've always considered a professional escort, professional being the key word here, as someone who plays a very important role in Society and shouldn't be treated shoddily. The fact that some of them are seeking to meet with you off the clock confirms that they find you a good person and obviously enjoy your company.

    Dating can be an expensive business, (I'm content with a pint of bitter and bag of chips!) and the right woman will be delighted with whatever you can offer as it's your company they should be interested in - not what you can financially afford.

    I hope that the day may come when the right person appears in your life and you can build a good relationship, in the meantime, I applaud your honesty, carry on, you are hurting no-one and looking after yourself and your emotional well being.

    Good luck.

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