Published on 12, July, 2020
It is even harder if you are both *** and asexual, as I am myself. The whole notion of physical contact, other than firm hugs and cuddles, does not fill me with desire. What I would like is an intimate, close relationship between myself and another girl. But as I find it very difficult to make friends and feel very nervous in unstructured social situations, I am not too optimistic about relationships at the moment. I don't go to parties or social events. I attend a book-club, but it is made up of old people, and the Asperger's group I go to is primarily male, and I do not fancy the females who attend the group (who are already in relationships with men, anyway). I am a minority within a minority, and this makes things even harder. How do I tell without asking if someone is a ***? To reiterate, I do not like late-night socialising in pubs - do not like pubs, am teetotal in any case; do not like discos, pointless group banter etc. So what do I do?