Published on 12, July, 2020
wash620 said:I was wondering whether the autistics among us have ever experienced any issues with liking someone romantically, and trying to get to know them, dating them, and becoming closer etc.This makes me feel ashamed and wonder whether I am a selfish, pathetic individual. Does anyone here with Aspergers have any similar experiences?
you're not selfish and pathetic just because you find it difficult trying to get over someone, us nts have that problem too, this is a 'normal' problem
you hav enothing to be ashamed of
but, its time to start looking for something that can help you move on from her, you dont in essense 'forget about her' you learn from this experience, but you move on from her and use that information later on with a new girl
its not that different from being an nt, you have to find the 'right' person who is willing to listen to your rubbish and who likes it