Published on 12, July, 2020
Yeah, same problem here...
My theory is, you need to be able to tell that something you said or did made the other person happy or sad. This knowledge guides you confidently how to keep this person's interest, AND it makes you automatically feel good when you are with this person. (I guess!) But if you can't tell the difference you end up doing random things, and the potential crush gets annoyed and leaves.
@KaloJaro, I never know what to do in these superficial "flirt" situations either! If NTs are allegedly oh so good at reading people, why can't they tell it's 100% obvious that a person is not interested in them?!
Are we not only "not receiving the right messages", but also "sending completely wrong messages"...?!
I honestly gave up long ago. Why not just stay alone, what's the difference?