Published on 12, July, 2020
Relationships have kind of happened to me in the past. You simply have to place yourself in non work places where you meet people repeatedly and are able to demonstrate attractive qualities, e.g. wealth, fitness, energy, fashion sense. Generally if you do this then people will find you and choose you for their own.
Exactly how to engineer such circumstances I could not say; they simply happened to me at the time due to the flats that I rented. I suppose always choosing shared accommodation helps. The problem is that it is far easier to choose accommodation that does not require having to meet people to arrange shared commitments, especially given that I would far prefer to have my own place.
Of course, maintaining the relationship is the difficult thing. I think the only reason my last relationship lasted so long was because the other party despite having never suspected any kind of differences, in fact positively rejecting the idea of being anything other than normal, was quite happy to not see me for months at a time. In fact she was even more distant than me.