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I am in love with a girl, but she won't be able to reciprocate

Hope

I am deeply in love, to the point of obsession, with an amazingly attractive girl/woman. Everytime I am in her company I feel overawed by her presence: her perfect body and features, her voice, her manner, her intellect, everything. Even on a forum,  I am not confident enough to say what this person does or how I know her, but I do not see her that often and she is only an acquaintance of mine. I think she is probably straight, although I don't know this,  and love is blind. It is hard having Asperger's and being a ***.

I have always been obsessed with people, but this one is particularly extreme. I think about her every day, and feel full of excitement whenever I get to be with her.

What can I do? The thing is, I yearn for a relationship with another woman, but I don't know how to find this. But I am just as capable of love as anyone else, and this obsession is making me cry and feel anxious, as well as happy. I can't even talk about it with my therapst - I can tell no-one!

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  • Im not sure I know what to suggest Hope other than maybe you need to just keep the friendship going and don't jeopordise by thinking too much into it at this stage.  You would need to know more about her life, past etc to build up a picture of wether she is straight or not too.  Maybe just suggest some fun things to do to get to know each other a lot better and if it's meant to be then it will progress from there.

    try not to stress, instead think of some things you could suggest to do if the situation arises., ie - cinema, shopping, bowling -  anything that you would both have fun doing xx

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  • Im not sure I know what to suggest Hope other than maybe you need to just keep the friendship going and don't jeopordise by thinking too much into it at this stage.  You would need to know more about her life, past etc to build up a picture of wether she is straight or not too.  Maybe just suggest some fun things to do to get to know each other a lot better and if it's meant to be then it will progress from there.

    try not to stress, instead think of some things you could suggest to do if the situation arises., ie - cinema, shopping, bowling -  anything that you would both have fun doing xx

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