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If you take something out of your sons 'Tool Box' you must replace it and give him reasons why it's not good otherwise he won't understand.
The scratching I also do. My skin litterally crawls. I cannot help it, nor do I realize i'm doing it until I'm raw or bleeding. It's a sensory thing.
Their is a name for this but I cannot remember it.
You may find this helpful.
www.youtube.com/watch
Coogy,
