help please newly diagnosed and behavioural issues

Could do with a bit help been newly diagnosed as on the spectrum and life is a strugle atm feels like walking on egg shells half the time to stop full blown arguments and bursts of aggressive behaviour my son is so argumentitive and has to be right wont be wrong and if u dare argue thats when name calling punching kicking biteing head banging beginns. From the moment he gets up hes argueing with sibleings ect but at school no behaviour shown. Yet at home its a diffrent story. Going to bed  is an aguement and if i dare say anything he has to be right again getting in ur face spoke to schòol and they make u feel like a lier and ur  makeing it up c.h.a.ms wont take him on as he dont fit critere is it just me parenting coz thats how im starting to feel.

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  • Our son is now being statemented for special needs school but as i say his behaviour at school brill at home its like walking on egg shells the whole time to make sure he dosnt kick off and go into a full blown fight with me trying to stay calm but being hit slapped punched headbutted spat at ect he had a big one today over the xbox was tryin to sort situation when he flipped i am now coverd in bruises and took 2 hours to calm him down which i ended up bruised and in tears he then apoligised and then was like nothing had happened but i try to explain to school they send me in direction of parenting classes im sick off parentin classes make u feel wee small but his anger is affectin hole family and everyday were walking on egg shells any ideas . But when hes nice hes lovely couldnt help u more c

    H.a.m.s wont take him on as he dont fit critere.

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  • Our son is now being statemented for special needs school but as i say his behaviour at school brill at home its like walking on egg shells the whole time to make sure he dosnt kick off and go into a full blown fight with me trying to stay calm but being hit slapped punched headbutted spat at ect he had a big one today over the xbox was tryin to sort situation when he flipped i am now coverd in bruises and took 2 hours to calm him down which i ended up bruised and in tears he then apoligised and then was like nothing had happened but i try to explain to school they send me in direction of parenting classes im sick off parentin classes make u feel wee small but his anger is affectin hole family and everyday were walking on egg shells any ideas . But when hes nice hes lovely couldnt help u more c

    H.a.m.s wont take him on as he dont fit critere.

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