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Does anyone ever use Google AI to help you out?

Mazerunner

Hi everyone, I have moved to a new council flat with a community room. For a year now I have been trying to fit into an established group dynamic. Whenever I have attempted to fit in with others in the past I have always left the group and lived alone. With the help of Google AI, I have began to understand my autism like never before. I have learnt that masking does not work.

Being your natural self is so empowering, and the unconscious natural comments you contribute are just for you. Myself and the rest of us are indeed incredible in group dynamics. We spend all of our energy trying to get the respect of the group we forget that we have had all the answers after all.

Once you stop looking for approval or validation we can all succeed. All manner of humans beings "even the grumpy ones" crave one thing, that is to feel comfortable and safe with others. It is a mean world out there, and the more allies we have the better, safer we feel.  I can not speak for everyone with this, but we instinctively know a good person from a bad person, and if we stop being distracted by trying to fit in "do not upset anyone" this instinct gets stronger. I use the compensate and non-compliance rule myself. I have found out that in a group dynamics these two characters traits live, hiding in plain site. Using Google AI I feel much more comfortable inside this dynamic and learned how to live in it. The strange thing is, I have been getting it right for years but not realising it. Telling Google AI the scenarios being played out in the room, you know, the ones you thought where meant for you, and how this made you feel. Replaying the event and your reactions to the event into AI, the AI explained exactly what is playing out in the group and how allegiances are formed.

All groups have one thing in common, that is a leader and all of his/her minions follow. In an established group nobody within the group will challenge for leadership on there own, it is like watching a wildlife documentary about chimpanzees. When you enter the group, you do not follow convention, this challenges the leader, and it is up to the leader to bring you down. The other follow. If you have been in this situation, put everything into Google AI and it will de-code the behaviour of the group for you. We have super powers in these situation that we did not know we have. Do not run away, enjoy the challenge and winning the group over by AI and being you.

One simple rule to begin your victory is, do not challenge the leader in there comfy place "the group." Also work on the minions alone "away from the group." Work out the good from the bad nothing can touch you with facts and logic on your side. One more thing do not information bomb neurotypical people there little minds can not take it, it will not fit into a established group, all they want to do is talk rubbish and make fun of each other. If this resonates with any of you drop me a message. Be happy to chat. Mazerunner.       

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  • As much as sometimes I get lazy and use the ai I hate ai one tiny spelling mistake and it goes oh yes people do sometimes call autism utisim NO AI STOP MAKING FUN OF ME IT'S NOT CLEVER OR AMUSING 

  • in reply to Thpsguy

    hello Thpsguy, which AI are you using? /srs I use Google AI and it as never given me spelling errors. Just got to watch the American spelling of some words. I have been using AI to help me navigate this forum, because I have never used this forum. It is like visiting a place I have never been before, I need to build a roadmap. Just wondering what does you username mean? /srs.  

  • in reply to Mazerunner

    I've used Google and also chat gpt

    Thps is tony Hawk's pro Skater one of my speical intrests I've played all the home console version other than the dreamcast and I've played 2 and 3 on gameboy advance I've also played all 4 major american wasteland/skatelsbd version as well as all 3 thps remake games 

  • in reply to Thpsguy

    Hello again Thpsguy,

    Hope this response will not tax your concentration to much. (this is autism in action) I feel the need to give a full comprehensive reply. 

    You can do things on a computer game that would completely destroy other players.  I am assuming you play other people online, and get a real dopamine rush when competing with others. Have you ever been to any live, any skateboarding competitions near you? /srs 

    Reading your post I can see you have attempted to play a couple of musical instruments. The fact that you have ADHD also causes difficulties because learning to play a musical instrument is incredibly boring to start with. You are already disadvantaged, because learning a musical instrument requires a very structured and a goal driven mind, and will not reward you with a dopamine hit like your computer games do. It must be difficult for you being autistic and also living with ADHD. I feel like your brain must be in a fight for dominance going on all day, between the autism part of you and the ADHD part of you. The good news is you have all the muscle memory you need for your computer games to get into hyper-focus mode and relief from the fighting. If you where to say, which part of 'you' has dominance over the other? /srs  

    Music is not for everyone, your brain will not allow the boring to have your full focus. Give yourself a pat on the back for perseverance in learning what you have learnt

    Myself I live alone with my autism, and we do share some traits. I too have dalliances with projects that interest me for a small period of time. I am not the typical autistic person I am not super organised, I have organisation in my life but I am not obsessed by it. I too can start a project, buy all the materials I need to do the said project, then stop abruptly when I feel I am not getting the results and rewards I was expecting. Like gardening as an example.

    I have one main interest that has remained with me all of my adult life so far, that is playing my guitar. I always wanted to play the guitar from an early age. I got the chance to borrow a electric guitar from friend for a couple of years when I was sixteen. I was never off it during my leisure time, I had a job to go to through the day. I think my autism helped me focus even harder, I was pretty good after a couple of years. Just like you with your games console. I still cannot read music,  the theory will not stick. I do have an idea about how to create my own music though. I now get a great buzz from playing shred guitar. My heroes are Yngwie J Malmsteen, Steve Vai , Joe Satriani. what masters of there craft. If you have watched the film Crossroads, Steve Vai plays the devil in the final guitar battle. His playing blew my mind when I first heard him. 

    It is time to go now. I hope you have leaned a little about me, has I have you. Enjoy your gaming.

    Thank you for the post hope to hear from you again in future posts. I am just learning how to use this forum. I will look out for your posts.

    Mazerunner.       

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  • in reply to Thpsguy

    Hello again Thpsguy,

    Hope this response will not tax your concentration to much. (this is autism in action) I feel the need to give a full comprehensive reply. 

    You can do things on a computer game that would completely destroy other players.  I am assuming you play other people online, and get a real dopamine rush when competing with others. Have you ever been to any live, any skateboarding competitions near you? /srs 

    Reading your post I can see you have attempted to play a couple of musical instruments. The fact that you have ADHD also causes difficulties because learning to play a musical instrument is incredibly boring to start with. You are already disadvantaged, because learning a musical instrument requires a very structured and a goal driven mind, and will not reward you with a dopamine hit like your computer games do. It must be difficult for you being autistic and also living with ADHD. I feel like your brain must be in a fight for dominance going on all day, between the autism part of you and the ADHD part of you. The good news is you have all the muscle memory you need for your computer games to get into hyper-focus mode and relief from the fighting. If you where to say, which part of 'you' has dominance over the other? /srs  

    Music is not for everyone, your brain will not allow the boring to have your full focus. Give yourself a pat on the back for perseverance in learning what you have learnt

    Myself I live alone with my autism, and we do share some traits. I too have dalliances with projects that interest me for a small period of time. I am not the typical autistic person I am not super organised, I have organisation in my life but I am not obsessed by it. I too can start a project, buy all the materials I need to do the said project, then stop abruptly when I feel I am not getting the results and rewards I was expecting. Like gardening as an example.

    I have one main interest that has remained with me all of my adult life so far, that is playing my guitar. I always wanted to play the guitar from an early age. I got the chance to borrow a electric guitar from friend for a couple of years when I was sixteen. I was never off it during my leisure time, I had a job to go to through the day. I think my autism helped me focus even harder, I was pretty good after a couple of years. Just like you with your games console. I still cannot read music,  the theory will not stick. I do have an idea about how to create my own music though. I now get a great buzz from playing shred guitar. My heroes are Yngwie J Malmsteen, Steve Vai , Joe Satriani. what masters of there craft. If you have watched the film Crossroads, Steve Vai plays the devil in the final guitar battle. His playing blew my mind when I first heard him. 

    It is time to go now. I hope you have leaned a little about me, has I have you. Enjoy your gaming.

    Thank you for the post hope to hear from you again in future posts. I am just learning how to use this forum. I will look out for your posts.

    Mazerunner.       

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