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Does anyone ever use Google AI to help you out?

Mazerunner

Hi everyone, I have moved to a new council flat with a community room. For a year now I have been trying to fit into an established group dynamic. Whenever I have attempted to fit in with others in the past I have always left the group and lived alone. With the help of Google AI, I have began to understand my autism like never before. I have learnt that masking does not work.

Being your natural self is so empowering, and the unconscious natural comments you contribute are just for you. Myself and the rest of us are indeed incredible in group dynamics. We spend all of our energy trying to get the respect of the group we forget that we have had all the answers after all.

Once you stop looking for approval or validation we can all succeed. All manner of humans beings "even the grumpy ones" crave one thing, that is to feel comfortable and safe with others. It is a mean world out there, and the more allies we have the better, safer we feel.  I can not speak for everyone with this, but we instinctively know a good person from a bad person, and if we stop being distracted by trying to fit in "do not upset anyone" this instinct gets stronger. I use the compensate and non-compliance rule myself. I have found out that in a group dynamics these two characters traits live, hiding in plain site. Using Google AI I feel much more comfortable inside this dynamic and learned how to live in it. The strange thing is, I have been getting it right for years but not realising it. Telling Google AI the scenarios being played out in the room, you know, the ones you thought where meant for you, and how this made you feel. Replaying the event and your reactions to the event into AI, the AI explained exactly what is playing out in the group and how allegiances are formed.

All groups have one thing in common, that is a leader and all of his/her minions follow. In an established group nobody within the group will challenge for leadership on there own, it is like watching a wildlife documentary about chimpanzees. When you enter the group, you do not follow convention, this challenges the leader, and it is up to the leader to bring you down. The other follow. If you have been in this situation, put everything into Google AI and it will de-code the behaviour of the group for you. We have super powers in these situation that we did not know we have. Do not run away, enjoy the challenge and winning the group over by AI and being you.

One simple rule to begin your victory is, do not challenge the leader in there comfy place "the group." Also work on the minions alone "away from the group." Work out the good from the bad nothing can touch you with facts and logic on your side. One more thing do not information bomb neurotypical people there little minds can not take it, it will not fit into a established group, all they want to do is talk rubbish and make fun of each other. If this resonates with any of you drop me a message. Be happy to chat. Mazerunner.       

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  • Mazerunner said:
    One more thing do not information bomb neurotypical people there little minds can not take it, it will not fit into a established group, all they want to do is talk rubbish and make fun of each other.

    I'm afraid that 'little minds' comes across to me as making fun of NTs, which makes me uncomfortable because I don't think it's fair to belittle and trivialise people because they are part of a group. Nor do I think facts and logic protect us against the evils of this world. Infortunately (as we've learned since Covid and the blooming of conspiracy theories and bigotry, too many people don't care about facts or logic.

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  • Mazerunner said:
    One more thing do not information bomb neurotypical people there little minds can not take it, it will not fit into a established group, all they want to do is talk rubbish and make fun of each other.

    I'm afraid that 'little minds' comes across to me as making fun of NTs, which makes me uncomfortable because I don't think it's fair to belittle and trivialise people because they are part of a group. Nor do I think facts and logic protect us against the evils of this world. Infortunately (as we've learned since Covid and the blooming of conspiracy theories and bigotry, too many people don't care about facts or logic.

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  • in reply to Alexa

    Hello Alexa,

    Thank you for responding to my post. First of all my intentions in the post come from a very good place has do most autistic opinions come from. It makes me sad that you feel that you are fighting a battle you cannot win. Your comment about making fun of neurotypical people was not meant to be funny, flippant maybe. This country has 95 million people in it and 85% of the people are neurotypical which leaves us 15% having to create our own roadmap through this crazy world we find ourselves in. When I wrote the post it was meant to empower that one or more persons to believe in themselves, and not to feel that there is no hope. I have always struggled with my own paranoia and uncertainties. tip toeing my way through this world trying to be the best human being I can be. Honesty does not get you trust in the neurotypical world I have found. You have to prove yourselves, earn it, stand up for yourselves, by first playing the neurotypical games of power. Autistic people put neurotypical off balance and they do not like it. So certain types of neurotypical cannot be bothered to take time to learn about us, the diversity of the way we see the world, learn our program code, they take a shortcut and reference films like Rain man ect, to me this is sloppy, lazy, thinking on there part. In my experience these people always seem to be leaders of lots of different types of groups, working environments, social groups, cliques and so on.

    Autistic people need to work so hard to learn the neurotypical code, it can lead to mental fatigue, sometimes it hurts in ways that a punch to the face cannot. This is the part of autism the group do not see. You come back to following day, a fresh start, then begin the task all over again. only to feel like you have been wading through mud all day.

    The conspiracy theories are just people who have a deep seated distrust regarding any political or technological advancement. This is concrete/malicious thinking on there part. you could take a conspiracy theorist to the moon and put them in the moon rover, and they will still come back and deny everything about the moon landings. These people are not worth you mental energy, you need it for more important things. You cannot allow these people to act like an ice cube and make your emotional glass too over spill causing a mess on your table for you to clean up. You may see this paragraph has plain logical fact, I do understand were you are coming from, but there is nothing here to get your dopamine hit from them.  I do hope you do not think I have been Information bombing you, what I am actually doing is being using double empathy toward you, it is a good thing, to explain my post and show you the truth about conspiracy theorists, by using total logic reasoning. I am not very good a emotional comforting, I use factional reasoning to help quell peoples anxiety. Thanks again for seeing me and look forward to chat more with you. Mazerunner.