Autism, it’s just a 6 letter word.

I’m trying to open up a discussion as I’m confused.

I’ve been attending some support sessions and some people celebrate being diagnosed autistic and have a party.

Now thats upto them, their choice.

I know it’s me that needs to see things differently but I find this really difficult to understand at the minute.

All the issues lifelong I have.

Lets just pretend autism wasn't named autism for a minute, after all it’s just a word somebody has put to a set of behaviours etc, let’s say it’s called an apple sandwich instead. 

So let’s just say you’re called Julie and I said “ Right Julie, you are just being born again, would you want to walk up and down the street repeatedly back and forth, touching hedges, gates, fences,  or would you want to not have to do this”

There’s surely not a person alive who would say they want to be born and do that and be an apple sandwich. 

Thats just one behaviour/aspect, there’s plenty more but just one example.

Autism is just a word it’s the things that you seem compelled to do I hate. 

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    1. Well, the thing is, not being born autustic doesn't guarantee you would have had a wonderful life. There could have been other problems that you might have had, for example, one if the personality didorders that exists or been born into an abusive household, etc. You might even have been born with some physical disability, so I think we should always keep things in perspective when we bemoan our lot in ife because there are people who are far worse off and also, It's knowing who you are and getting thr best out of your strengths rather than concentrating on the drawbacks. Elon Musk is autistic, apparently, and it doesn't seem to have done him much harm!
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    1. Well, the thing is, not being born autustic doesn't guarantee you would have had a wonderful life. There could have been other problems that you might have had, for example, one if the personality didorders that exists or been born into an abusive household, etc. You might even have been born with some physical disability, so I think we should always keep things in perspective when we bemoan our lot in ife because there are people who are far worse off and also, It's knowing who you are and getting thr best out of your strengths rather than concentrating on the drawbacks. Elon Musk is autistic, apparently, and it doesn't seem to have done him much harm!
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